Wednesday | June 27, 2007

MANIPULATION, CONTROL, EXPLOITATION OFADULT SCHOOL TEACHERS

MANIPULATION, CONTROL, EXPLOITATION OF ADULT SCHOOL TEACHERS
Laughing POPULATION AND CITIZENS OF EAST COUNTY PLEASE TELL THE SCHOOL DISTRICT TO STOP THEIR MANIPULATION, CONTROL, EXPLOITATION OF ADULT SCHOOL TEACHERS. IT'S JUST PLAIN MEAN AND WE NO LONGER WANT TO TAKE IT ANY LONGER!
Laughing I'M WRITING TO THE POPULATION OF EAST COUNTY TO TELL THEM TO PUT PRESSURE ON THE SCHOOL DISTRICT TO STOP THEM FROM MANIPULATING, CONTROLLING, AND EXPLOITATING ADULT SCHOOL TEACHERS. IT'S DOWN RIGHT WRONG AND INHUMANE. IT'S JUST MEAN!
Laughing I ASK THE CITIZENS OF EAST COUNTY TO RISE UP AND SHOUT NO MORE MANIPULATION, CONTROLLING, AND EXPLOITATION OF SOCIETIES TREASURE IE., ADULT SCHOOL TEACHERS. WE ARE NOT OBJECTS WHO CAN BE MANIPULATED, EXPLOITED, AND ABUSED BY A SYSTEM THAT PERPETUATES ARROGANCE AND MEANNESS.
Laughing AGAIN, AND AGAIN, ADULT TEACHERS HAVE BEEN USED, ABUSED, AND DISCARDED BY EAST COUNTY SCHOOL DISTRICTS INDISCRIMINATE CRUEL AND INHUMANE EXPLOITATION OF ADULT TEACHERS. IT'S TIME TO REMOVE THE POLITICS AND THE EMOTION FROM THE ADMINISTRATION OF EDUCATION. I ASK THE CITITZENS TO SPEAK UP AND SAY STOP NOW. TO MANY ADULT TEACHERS HAVE EXPERIENCED THE ABUSE. IT'S SIMPLY WRONG AND IT MUST STOP IMMEDIATELY.
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JOEL
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Sunday | June 24, 2007

WHY IGNORANCE IS NOT BLISS

IGNORANCE IS NEVER BLISS ITS PAINFUL
Embarassed STUDENTS REQUESTED SPONTANEOUS EXCHANGE AND INTERCHANGE IN MY LANGUAGE CLASSES. THE TOPICS INCLUDED FINANCING, CREDIT SCORES, EMOTIONS, PETS, POLITICS, AGENCIES IN THE COMMUNITES, FAMILY, MEN/WOMEN RELATIONSHIPS, FOODS, CARS, AND INTERESTS. THE REACTIONS OF STUDENTS VARIED. I FOCUSED ON CRITICAL THINKING FROM AN EDUCATIONAL POINT OF VIEW. SOME STUDENTS IN THE CLASS REACTED NEGATIVELY TO THE TOPICS AND WERE VERY UNHAPPY. I'M POWERLESS OF STUDENTS REACTIONS. I'M AN EDUCATOR AND FOLLOWED THE STUDENTS REQUEST FOR SPONTANEOUS ENGLISH EXCHANGE. THE ENGLISH EXCHANGE PRODUCED AWARENESS AS WELL AS SOME UNHAPPY STUDENTS. MY JOB ENDED BECAUSE OF THE EMOTIONAL REACTIONS OF THE STUDENTS TO THE TOPICS. THE EXCHANGE WAS SIGNIFICANT IN DEVELOPING STUDENTS ABILITY TO SPONTANEOUSLY RESPOND IN CONVERSATION. IT WORKED WELL REGARDLESS OF STUDENTS FEELINGS AS IT REFLECTS THEIR EMOTIONS. THE PRACTICE OF SPONTANEOUS CONVERSATIONAL EXCHANGE IS ESSENTIAL IN RAISING AWARENESS, TRANSFORMATION AND TO INDIVIDUAL ISSUES AND IGNORANCE. EDUCATIONAL POLITICS HAS NO ROOM IN MAINTAINING IGNORANCE. IGNORANCE IS NOT BLISS BUT IS HURTFUL, TRAUMATIC AND PAINFUL.
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JOEL
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ADJUSTING TO A NEW EMPLOYMENT ENVIRONMENT

ADUSTING TO A NEW EMPLOYMENT ENVIRONMENT
Foot in mouth I USE THE METHODS OF PERSONAL GROWTH TO ADJUST TO A NEW EMPLOYMENT ENVIRONMENT. THE PEER COUNSELING, CO-DEPENDENCY ANONYMOUS, ANIMATED LAUGHTER WITH FEELING, PRIMAL, YAWNING. DEVOTIONAL SINGING, PRAYER. I DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO ADJUST TO THE NEW ENVIRONMENT.
Laughing THERE ARE ALWAYS DEFINITIVE CHALLENGES WHEN ONE BEGINS A NEW JOB. THERE IS MUCH TO BE AWARE OF! WHAT TO SAY, WHAT, WHEN, WHERE, HOW, AND EVEN WHY TO SAY THINGS. WHERE, WHEN, AND WHO TO SPEAK WITH AND WHERE, WHEN, AND WHO NOT TO SPEAK WITH. HOW TO DO THINGS. PERSONALITIES WHO I NEED TO BE PATIENT WITH AND PERSONALITIES WHO I NEED TO ASSERT MYSELF WHEN. WHEN, AND HOW TO ASSERT MYSELF. WHEN TO BE QUIET AND LISTEN AND WHEN TO SPEAK UP. IT CAN BE TOUGH. I CAN MAKE MANY MISTAKES SO INSTEAD I ASK A MULTITUDE OF QUESTIONS.
Laughing I STAY AWARE OF WHEN MY KNEE JERK FEAR REACTIONS KICK IN AND WHEN THEY DO I NEED TO TAKE CHARGE AND ASSERT MY SELF WITH THE FEAR AND TEN TAKE CHARGE. FEAR IS NOT AND OPTION. I CHOOSE NOT TO ALLOW IT TO TAKE CHARGE OF ME AT ANYTIME.
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JOEL
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Friday | June 22, 2007

"NEW EMPLOYMNENT"

NEW EMPLOYMNENT
Laughing    IT'S ALWAYS A CHALLENGE TO BEGIN A NEW PROFESSION AND EMPLOYMENT IN A PROFESSION.  I GAINED EMPLOYMENT IN THE HOSPITALITY BUSINESS IN A FIVE STAR HOTEL IN SAN DIEGO COUNTY. I'M GOING THROUGH TRAINING AND DEVELOPING NEW RELATIONSHIPS WITH MY CO-WORKERS. IT'S GOING WELL!
 
Laughing    I'M STAYING POSITIVE AND AS POSED AS POSSIBLE WITH NEW THINGS AND NEW RELATIONSHIPS WITH CO-WORKERS. I'M DOING REALLY WELL ACCORDING TO THE FEEDBACK I'M RECEIVING!  
 
Laughing    IT'S FUN TO MEET NEW GUESTS AS WELL. I MET A GUEST FROM MY HOMETOWN, NEW YORK CITY, WHO IS EMPLOYED IN ONE OF THE INDUSTRIES I'M FAMILIAR WITH! WE DEVELOPED AN IMMEDIATE RAPPORT. IT'S ALSO FUN TO MEET OTHER PERSONNEL IN THE INDUSTRY. THE DESK CLERKS, BELLHOPS, ASSISTANT MANAGERS, AND ALSO THOSE RELATED TO THE CASINO OPERATIONS. THE PERSONALITIES ARE MULTIFACETED FROM MANY COUNTRIES.
  
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Thursday | June 14, 2007

CLASSLESS SOCIETY?

CLASSLESS SOCIETY?
Laughing I ATTENDED A RE-EVALUATION COCOUNSELING WORKSHOP THE WEEKEND OF JUNE 8TH AT PACIFIC PALISADES IN LOS ANGELES COUNTY. THE 60 OR SO PARTICIPANTS GROUPED INTO A VARIETY OF CLASSES. THE GROUPS CONSISTED OF THE POOR, WORKING, MIDDLE, AND OWNING CLASS.
Laughing IT BECAME CLEAR TO ME HOW THROUGH MINIPULATION AND CONTROL THE OWNING CLASSES WERE STUCK IN AN EXPLOITIVE PATTERN OF THE WORKING CLASS FOR PROFIT. THE WORKING CLASS ARE SOCIALIZED INTO SOCIETY LIKE MACHINE GEARS TO PRODUCE PROFIT FOR THE OWNING CLASS. IT ALSO BECAME CLEAR TO ME THAT THE OWNING CLASS TO HIDE ITS GUILT PUT DOWN CONSISTENTLY THE WORKING AND POOR CLASSES.
Laughing THE AMERICAN MIDDLE CLASS IS TRULY BEING SQUEEZED OUT OF EXISTENCE WITH MANY OF THEIR JOBS ENDING AND BEING OUTSOURCED OVERSEAS.
Laughing WE LEARNED HOW EVERYBODY IS BASICALLY FRIGHTENED. THE MAJORITY OF THE POPULATION OR WORKING CLASS ARE FRIGHTENED OF SCARCITY AND THE OWNING CLASS ARE FRIGHTENED OF LOSING THEIR POWER.
Laughing LEARNING TO LET GO OF FEAR IS PROBLEMATIC AND CONSISTENT DISCHARGE OF FEELINGS OF GUILT , FEAR, ARE MOST CERTAINLY NECESSARY. THE WORKING CLASS MUST BECOME EMPOWERED AND SHED THEIR FEAR AND SCARCITY ISSUES. THE OWNING CLASS MUST END THEIR FEAR AND GUILT AND STOP EXPLOITING THE WORKING AND MIDDLE CLASSES. WE MUST COME TOGETHER OR OUR PAIN WILL JUST CONTINUE. WE MUST LEARN TO ABOVE ALL TRUST!
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JOEL
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Friday | June 08, 2007

DON'T DO FOR OTHERS WHAT OTHERS CAN DO FOR THEMSELVES?

DON'T DO FOR OTHERS, WHAT OTHERS CAN DO FOR THEMSELVES?
 
Laughing    THIS IS A GENERAL RULE. HOWEVER, ONE MUST ALWAYS USE FLEXIBLE INTELLIGENCE IN GIVING OF ONESELF TO OTHERS. IT WILL ALWAYS DEPEND UPON THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATION. IF, FOR EXAMPLE, SOMEONE REFUSES TO USE THEIR CAR IN RIDE SHARING. IS IT SELFISH? WHAT ARE THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS? THE PERSON MAY HAVE FEARS THAT PREVENT THEM FROM USING THEIR VEHICLE IN A RIDE SHARE OR THEY MAY BE 80 YEARS OLD AND BECAUSE OF THEIR AGE FEEL PHYSICAL INCAPABLE OF GIVING OF THEMSELVES BY SHARING THEIR VEHICLE WITH OTHERS. 
 
IT'S ALWAYS IMPORTANT TO CONSIDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATION AROUND WHY OTHERS REFUSE TO DO FOR THEMSELVES. SOMETIMES, IT'S IMPORTANT TO SET BOUNDARIES AND SAY NO IN A LOVING WAY AND SOMETIMES IT'S IMPORTANT TO USE FLEXIBLE INTELLIGENCE AND DETERMINE IN SAYING NO IS IT INTELLIGENTLY FLEXIBLE!
 
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JOEL V.
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Sunday | June 03, 2007

OUR THOUGHTS, CONCERNS, WORRIES, AND ANXIETIES

OUR THOUGHTS, CONCERNS, WORRIES, AND ANXIETIES
IF AND WHEN WE ARE EXPERIENCING AN ON-GOING STRESSFUL SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCES OUR MENTAL CAPACITY TO COPE IS IMPACTED. THE PROGRESSION OF THOUGHTS, CONCERNS, WORRIES, AND FINALLY ANXIETY OCCURS. THE ON-GOING STRESS SITUATION MAY DEVELOP INTO AN ANXIETY STATE. IT'S IMPORTANT FOR US TO OBTAIN HELP AS SOON AS POSSIBLE. WITH STRESSFUL THOUGHTS, CONCERNS, AND WORRIES CONFIDING IN A FRIEND IS SUFFICIENT. WITH ANXIETIES A COUNSELOR OR THERAPIST MAY BE NEEDED. TO OFTEN, WE MAKE A CASE FOR A SITUATION. WHEN THE STRESS SITUATION BECOMES OVERLY STRESSFUL OUR THINKING MAY HAVE EVOLVED INTO A DISTRESSFUL ANXIETY FILLED STATE OF MIND. WE MAY BECOME OUT OF TOUCH WITH WHAT IS, WITH REALITY. THE SOLUTION IS TO BECOME AWARE OF OUR CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATION AND ASK FOR HELP. WE NEED TO REACH OUT AND ASK FOR HELP UNDER THE ABOVE CIRCUMSTANCES. SOMETIMES, WE MUST FORCE OURSELVES TO ASK FOR HELP. THE SOCIALIZATION PROCESS, THE COMPETITIVE SOCIETY, THE DEFENSES (DENIAL) AND THE EMOTIONAL AND COGNITIVE CONTROLS REINFORCE OUR BODY ARMOR. IT BECOMES DIFFICULT EVEN FOR US TO ASK FOR HELP. NEVERTHELESS, THE TENSION ACCUMULATES. IT BECOMES AN UNHEALTHY MENTAL STATE. WE, THEN, MUST REACH OUT AND ASK FOR HELP!
WE MUST DEVELOP THE COGNITIVE, EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL, AND PRACTICAL TOOLS ADDRESS OUR ANXIETY STATES OF MIND. I'VE WRITTEN PREVIOUSLY ABOUT THE THREE CATEGORIES OF HOW WE CAN ADDRESS OUR INNER BURDENS. PLEASE REFER TO PREVIOUS BLOGS.
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JOEL V.
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