Tuesday | April 24, 2007

MOVING THROUGH THE BODY ARMOR (THOSE DEFENSES)

Laughing WE GET STUCK! THE BODY ARMOR WE'VE BUILT UP "THAT PATTERN" HAS BEEN REINFORCED AGAIN AND AGAIN! IT'S AN IMPOSSIBLE JOB TO MOVE THROUGH IT AND GET TO OUR DISSONANT FEELINGS, CONNECT WITH THEM, AND BEGIN TO LET THEM GO. IT'S JUST SO FRUSTRATING. WHAT ARE WE TO DO?

ANYONE ATTEMPTING TO RE-EMERGE FROM PATTERNS FIND IT VERY FRUSTRATING MOVING THROUGH THE BODY ARMOR. "ANIMATED LAUGHTER" CLASSES IS ONE WAY OF DECEIVING THE BODY ARMOR AND ACCESSING THE DISSONANT ENERGY AND RELEASING IT!

WE CAN PASS THROUGH THE DENIAL, THE SOCIALIZATION PROCESS, THOSE OTHER PSYCHOLOGICAL DEFENSES, AND GET TO THE FEAR THROUGH ANIMATED LAUGHTER.

THE SECRET IS TO REPEAT THE CIRCULAR PATTERN OF MOVING THROUGH THE PATTERNED BODY ARMOR AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN. WE JUST DON'T STOP. WE ARE CONSISTENT IN OUR PERSISTENCE UNTIL THE DEFENSIVE WALLS DISSAPATE.

PLEASE JOIN ME AGAIN ON SATURDAYS AT 11:00 A.M. IN BALBOA PARK, SAN DIEGO BETWEEN QUINCE AND UPAS ON SIXTH AVENUE NEAR THE PLAYGROUNDS FOR OUR LAUGHTER CLASS. THE NEXT ONE IS 4/28. PLEASE BRING A PILLOW, MAT OR BLANKET, A MINDSET THAT YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL LIKE LAUGHING, A FRIEND, AND A LOVE OFFERING. WE MEET FOR ABOUT ONE HOUR AND 15 MINUTES.

MUCH BLESSINGS

JOEL V.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Posted by at 23:12:33 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Saturday | April 21, 2007

ADDRESSING THE DEFENSES

THE JOY OF ACCESSING FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF EMOTIONS!
THE ANIMATED LAUGHTER CLASS TODAY WAS AWESOME! ACCESSING THE FEELINGS (the fear) BY DECEIVING THE defenses (the fear) reflective of the RIGIDITIES that reinforce the fear through animated laughter is just the best way to dissipate the fear reflective of any issue! I truely believe a revolution has begun! We can now conquer the greatest frontier of human dysfuntional behaviors through animated laughter! There is truely nothing to fear even fear itself! Please join the next class of animated laughter. Resistance is no longer necessary. It's totally unnecessary. You will have more fun than you ever had in your life! Sustained hysterical laughter is the best way to heal any issue! Just think! Defensive walls begin to dissipate as you have an hysterical time rolling around on the mat with unending belly laughs. Please visualize yourselves doing that! WoW! Do not deny yourself liberation.
Do not deny yourself a great time, healing and bring youth and a youthful attitude to your life. It's no longer necessary to resist your transformation! My next presentation will be at the First Unitarian Universalist Church at 4190 Front Street by UCSD Medical Center located in Hillcrest, San Diego, CA. The First unitarian Universalist Singles will sponsor the presentation at 7:30p.m. on April 27th. Please join me in joyfully learning how we can now begin to reemerge from our issues and from all our defenses that stand in your way! Please phone me for more information.
Posted by at 22:35:42 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Friday | April 20, 2007

LAUGH A LOT SAN DIEGO! ---- LAUGH A LOT SAN DIEGO!

LEARN TO LET GO AUTHENTICALLY THROUGH "LAUGH A LOT"! "LAUGH A LOT", LETTING GO THROUGH ANIMATED LAUGHTER! HELD SATURDAYS AT 11:00A.M. IN BALBOA PARK, SAN DIEGO BETWEEN UPAS AND LAUREL ON THE SIXTH AVENUE SIDE NEAR THE PLAYGROUND AREA! LOOK FOR THE "LAUGH A LOT" SIGN! BEGINS APRIL 21ST

PLEASE CHECK THE BLOG EACH WEEK TO FIND OUT ABOUT CLASSES AND PRESENTATIONS!


"LAUGH A LOT" IS A HEALTHY WAY OF RELEASING FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF EMOTIONS. TOO OFTEN, WE JUST DON'T REALIZE THE EXTENT OF TENSION THAT HAS ACCUMULATED BECAUSE OF FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF STRESS AND DISTRESS!

PSYCHOLOGY MASTERS IN HUMAN BEHAVIOR, AUTHOR OF TWO REVIEWED AND RECOGNIZED BOOKS, “I Dare to Heal with Compassionate Love”, and “I Dare to Heal with Spiritual Power”. WWW.IDARETOHEAL.COM>, PROFESSIONAL SPIRITUAL COUNSELOR, MULTI-LINGUAL, AND MULTIPLE SUBJECT TEACHER WITH FOUR DECADES OF EMOTIONAL RELEASE EXPERIENCE HAS LED ME TO ONE CONCLUSION THAT ANIMATED "LAUGH A LOT"! IS AN AUTHENTIC METHOD OF "LETTING GO"! PLEASE BRING BLANKET AND/OR MAT, AND PILLOW REQUIRED! COME WITH THE MINDSET AND INTENTION THAT YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL LIKE YOU'RE GOING TO "LAUGH A LOT"! CREDENTIALED! DONATION! Phone 619-584-8093 for further info!

 

Posted by at 23:33:40 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Monday | April 16, 2007

ARE YOU FRUSTRATED? ARE YOU RELUCTANT TO FIND A METHOD TO DO YOUR WORK THAT WORKS?

Embarassed I'VE MET INDIVIDUALS WHO ARE JUST FRUSTRATED ABOUT DOING THE INNER WORK. IT'S CERTAINLY UNDERSTANDABLE. I SUGGEST TO THEM THAT THERE MAY NOT BE ANY ALTERNATIVE BUT TO DO THE INNER WORK. WE CAN CHOOSE TO BE SHUT DOWN AND IGNORE THE TRIGGERS. WE CAN ALSO ATTEMPT TO FIND WAYS TO DISSIPATE THE TRIGGERS. PERHAPS THE PAIN WILL JUST GO AWAY IF WE DO? HOWEVER, I HAVEN'T KNOWN MANY WHO CLAIM THAT THE PAIN HAS GONE WAY. THE PAIN USUALLY COMES OUT IN OTHER WAYS BY WAY OF OTHER DISEASES. I SUGGEST THAT WE NEED TO FIND THOSE PERSONAL GROWTH METHODS THAT RESONATE WITH US AND USE THEM TO DO EFFECTIVE, FOCUSED, AND EFFICIENT INNER WORK! I HAVE, AND I DO, AND IT WORKS!

IF AND WHEN WE ARE CONTINUALLY TRIGGERED, EXPERIENCE KNEE JERK REACTIONS (REACTION FORMATION) THEN THERE IS NO CHOICE BUT TO CONTINUE SEEKING IN ORDER TO FIND PERSONAL GROWTH METHODS THAT WORK FOR US! HOPEFULLY, WE ARE STRONG ENOUGH TO REACH OUT FOR SUPPORT?

SOMETIMES THE VERY FRUSTRATION WE FEEL REFLECTS OUR DEFENSES, AND OUR SELF-DEFEATING BEHAVIORS RESULT IN OUR KNEE JERK REACTIONS! YES, IT'S DECEIVING AND OUR AWARENESS MAY NOT BE PRESENT. SELF-DEFEATING BEHAVIORS ARE DECEPTIVE! THEY DRIVE US TO DO THE INNER WORK OR PERHAPS TO SOME ADDICTION. FINDING A METHOD TO DO EFFECTIVE, FOCUSED, AND EFFICIENT INNER WORK IS PERFERABLE.

THE ANSWER IS "DON'T QUIT", "DON'T GIVE UP", AND LEARN TO GO INTO, CONNECT WITH AND LEARN TO RELEASE, SURRENDER, AND LET GO, AGAIN AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN, AND AGAIN. WE ARE LIKE LOTUS FLOWERS THAT REQUIRE NURTURING. BY THE WAY, NATURE LOOKS KINDLY UPON LOTUS FLOWERS.

BEST

JOEL V.

 

 

Posted by at 00:06:47 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Thursday | April 12, 2007

ANNOYANCE PHONE CALLS! (NEED FOR ATTENTION?)

Frown DO YOU RECEIVE ANNOYANCE PHONE CALLS? PEOPLE CALL AND SAY NOTHING, AFTER YOU ANSWER AND SAY HELLO? I AM NOW RECEIVING ANNOYANCE PHONE CALLS. I BELIEVE THE PHONE CALLS ARE AN EXAMPLE OF ACTING OUT. IT'S A CRY FOR ATTENTION. THE CALLER IS IN NEED FOR SOMEONE TO BE THERE FOR THEM! I UNDERSTAND THE NEED. UNFORTUNATELY, IT'S JUST NOT A HEALTHY METHOD TO GET THE NEED FILLED. I CERTAINLY HAVE COMPASSION FOR THOSE WHO ARE IN NEED. WE ALL HAVE NEEDS AND IT'S UNHEALTHY EMOTIONALLY TO SATISFY THEM BY CALLING OTHERS AND ANNOYING THEM. WE ARE NOT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE BEHAVIOR. IF YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS CALLING, IT'S TIME TO STOP IMMEDIATELY!

WE LOOK AT AND ADDRESS THE FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF THE EMOTIONS THAT PERPETUATE THESE BEHAVIORS. WE INTRUDE UPON THE BOUNDARIES OF OTHERS WHEN THE IRRATIONAL BEHAVIOR DOES NOT STOP! IT'S IRRATIONAL TO PERPETUATE THE BEHAVIOR. WE HURT ONLY OURSELVES IN DOING SO!

I WRITE ABOUT THE THREE CATEGORIES OF GOING INTO, CONNECTING, AND LETTING GO AND BELIEVE IT'S THE ONLY WAY TO CLOSE THE GAP FILLED WITH PAIN AND RESLOVE THE HURT AND OR TRAUMAS THAT ARE WITHIN OUR SELVES EMOTIONALLY IN OUR LIVES. IT TAKES TIME AND DAILY WORK TO RESOLVE CHRONIC NEEDS. I'VE TAKEN RESPONSIBILITY TO RESOLVE MY OWN!

WE MUST SET BOUNDARIES. THE TWELVE STEP PROGRAMS LIKE CO-DEPENDENCE ANONYMOUS REQUIRE AND UNDERSTANDING OF BOUNDARY SETTING. WE MUST SET BOUNDARIES IN OUR LIVES WHEN OTHERS INTRUDE UPON OUR PEACE OF MIND. WE MUST SET BOUNDARIES, IF WE CANNOT COMMUNICATE WITH THOSE WHO REFUSE TO COMMUNICATE. OUR ACTIONS MUST BE DECISIVE AND DEFINITIVE.

 

BEST

JOEL V.

 

 

 

 

Posted by at 11:27:18 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Tuesday | April 10, 2007

Smile THE ANIMATED LAUGHTER CLASS AT MARYBRENDA MCQUEEN'S "MIRACLE RETREAT" THIS PAST SUNDAY WAS ANOTHER SUCCESS!
I AM AN EXPERT AT THE MYRIAD MANIFESTATIONS OF EMOTIONAL RELEASE AND AND EXPERT IN MOVING THROUGH THE EMOTIONAL DEFENSES THAT PREVENT INDIVIDUALS CONNECTING AND GOING INTO THEIR DISSONANT FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF THE SAD, ANGRY, EMBARRASSING, GUILT, SHAME, AND FEARFUL EMOTIONS.
ANIMATED LAUGHTER CLASSES LED BY ME IS PROVING TO BE THE ABSOLUTE BEST WAY FOR HUMANS TO CONNECT, GO-INTO AND LET GO OF THE DIFFERENT CATEGORIES OF FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF THESE EMOTIONS.
I'LL WILL BE SPEAKING THIS SATURDAY AFTERNOON, APRIL 14TH AT THE CLAIREMONT CHURCH OF G-D WITH THE SUBJECT BEING "LETTING GO". THE CHURCH IS LOCATED AT 4955 CONRAD AVE. IN SAN DIEGO.
THE LAUGHTER HAS A CONTIGOUS AND INFECTIOUS QUALITY. I ASK PARTICIPANTS PRIOR TO THEIR PARTICIPATION JUST TO SIMPLY THINK "THAT THEY NEED TO PREPARE THEMSELVES TO LAUGH"! THE MINDSET IS SIGNIFICANT ALONG WITH THE INTENTION. THE LAUGHTER HAS A RIPPLE IMPACT SUBSEQUENT TO THE END OF THE CLASS. THE LAUGHTER PERMEATED THE REMAINDER OF THE MIRACLE WORKSHOP AND JUST HELPED PARTICIPANTS TO ACCESS FEELINGS THAT THEY WOULD NOT NORMALLY, SEEMINGLY BE ABLE TO ADDRESS OTHERWISE. IT WAS AS WELL "A LOT OF FUNNNNNNN"!
I BELEIVE IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE TO HAVE HAD A PLENTIFUL EXPERIENCE WITH THE MYRIAD MANIFESTATIONS OF EMOTIONAL RELEASE. I'M QUITE COMFORTABLE WITH THE MANIFESTATIONS OF LETTING GO. PLEASE JOIN ME AT THE CLAIREMONT CHURCH THIS SATURDAY APRIL 14tH FOR MY PRESENTATION.
JANE COHEN IS BEGINNING A "GETTING TO WHAT MATTERS" CLASS THAT FOCUS ON MOVING THROUGH THE DEFENSE SYSTEMS THAT KEEP YOUR FROM ACCESSING WHAT MATTERS MOST TO YOU IN YOUR LIFE, FOCUSING ON INTERPERSONAL DYNAMICS, ACCORDING TO JANE! FOR MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT HER AT JC@janecohen.net.
SmileJV
Posted by at 14:39:01 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Thursday | April 05, 2007

AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE/TURNING IT, IT, IT, OVER TO G-D/FOR-FOR-FORGIVENESS!

AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE
TURNING IT, IT, IT, OVER TO G-D
FOR-FOR-FOR--GIVE-GIVE-NESS
 
Smile IT'S NOT UNUSUAL THAT THE WORD GRATTITUDE IS AN ATTITUDE. AN ATTITUDE IS A STATE OF BEING. WE CAN BE A BEING IN A STATE OF GRATITUDE WHEN WE GO WITHIN AND EXPERIENCE A THANKFULNESS FOR JUST BEING A REFLECTION OF CREATION!
 
Smile WHEN WE TURN IT, IT, IT, OVER TO G-D, WHAT ARE WE IN ESSENCE DOING? WE ARE GOING WITHIN WHEN WE FEEL A SELF-DOUBT, SELF-RESERVATION, A FEAR, A ANGER, A SADNESS, AND EXPERIENCE IT WITHIN! WE CONNECT WITH IT, GO INTO IT, WE CAN THEN DECIDE, PERMIT, ALLOW OURSELVES TO RELEASE, LET GO, AND SURRENDER IT.
 
Smile WE FOR, FOR, FOR-GIVE WHEN WE ALSO GO WITHIN AND DECIDE, PERMIT, ALLOW OURSELVES TO CONNECT, GO INTO, AND EXPERIENCE THE ANGER, THE SADNESS, THE FEAR, AND ALLOW , PERMIT, OURSELVES TO RELEASE, SURRENDER, AND LET GO OF IT, IT, IT.
 
WE CAN USE ANY METHOD THAT RESONATES WITH US TO ACHIEVE THE ABOVE. ALL THREE CATEGORIES OF LETTING GO CAN BE USED! SOME EXAMPLES OF CATEGORY ONE ARE TALKING WITH A FRIEND, GOING ON VACATION, OR TAKING A JACUZZI, CATEGORY TWO, COUNSELING, THERAPY, OR, EXERCISE, CATEGORY THREE INCLUDE THE MANIFESTATIONS OF RELEASE, PRIMAL, OR PEER COUNSELING. WE MAY NEED TO USE ALL THREE CATEGORIES DEPENDING UPON THE SITUATION AND CIRCUMSTANCES. HUMANKIND NEEDS ALL THREE CATEGORIES. DENIAL IS JUST NOT AN OPTION.
 
BEST
JOEL V.
Posted by at 06:58:28 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |

Tuesday | April 03, 2007

Animated Laughter Class At Angel's Landing

I WILL BE DOING AN ANIMATED LAUGHTER CLASS ON APRIL 7TH AT ANGEL'S LANDING IN JULIEN IN THE AFTERNOON. IF INTERESTED PLEASE E-MAIL MARY BRENDA MC QUEEN AT MARYBRENDA@AOL.COM FOR FURTHER INFORMATION REGARDING HER MIRACLES RETREAT.
BEST
JOEL V.
Posted by at 01:40:50 | Permanent Link | Comments (0) |