Thursday | May 01, 2008

TALE OF A TOOTHACHE!

IS YOUR TOOTH THROBING ASKED THE DENTIST? YES, I ANSWERED. DR. JOHNS, THE ENDODONTIST EXAMINED THE TOOTH GIVING IT A 50% TO 75% CHANCE OF SURVIVAL BUT CLAIMED THAT IT HAD A POSSIBLE CRACK. I WAS GOING TO EXTRACT IT BUT MY PRIMARY DENTIST SUGGESTED I GO FOR THE INITIAL ROOT CANAL AND CHECK OUT THE TOOTH. I DID AND THE ENDODONTIST FOUND A CRACK IN THE TOOTH WHEN SHE EXAMINED THE TOOTH THROUGH THE MICROSCOPE. I AM GOING TO EXTRACT THE TOOTH TOMORROW! THE TOTAL COST WILL BE $1200.00 AND THAT'S WITH INSURANCE!  I ADDRESSED THE EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE BY USING ANIMATED LAUGHTER, PRIMAL, THE YAWN, CODA GROUPS, PEER COUNSELING, AND ACUPUNCTURE EFFECTIVELY.

BEST
JOEL V.

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Friday | April 18, 2008

NEEDS FEARS CONTROL COMPLIANCE

WOMEN NEED TO REPRODUCE, A NEST, SECURITY IN THE NEST, SO-CALLED BEADS (JEWELRY) BANGLES (FLOWERS), AND A MINIMUM 20 MINUTES OF ATTENTION FROM A MAN EACH DAY!  MEN NEED SEX AND A ROOF OVER THEIR HEADS. TOO OFTEN, WE ARE AFRAID TO EXPRESS OUR NEEDS BECAUSE WE MAY NOT GET THEM FILLED! OUR NON-EXPRESSION OF NEEDS MAY BE CAUSED BY A HURT OR TRAUMAS FROM THE PAST. IF SO, WE NEED TO ADDRESS OUR FEELINGS EFFECTIVELY.
WOMEN MAY BE AFRAID OF MEN'S ANGER AND MEN MAY BE AFRAID OF REJECTION. WE HINT AT OUR NEEDS, MINIPULATE OTHERS TO GET OUR NEEDS MET, OR OUT RIGHT TAKE CHARGE AND CONTROL! I THINK MANY OF MALE/FEMALE CONFLICTS RESULT JUST FROM THE NON-EXPRESSION OF OUR NEEDS TO EACH OTHER. OUR FEARS GET IN THE WAY. IT'S A SELF-WORTH, SELF-ESTEEM ISSUE. WE HAVE NOT BEEN EDUCATED TO EMOTIONALLY EXPRESS OUR BASIC, NATURAL NEEDS IN A THOUGHTFUL AND FEELING WAY! THE RESULT IS CONFLICT AND SOMETIMES A LOT OF CONFLICT, HURT, AND TRAUMA BOTH PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL. WELL, IT'S GOT TO STOP NOW!

WE SPEAK ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS IN CO-DEPENDENCY MEETINGS AND OUR MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS ARE REVEALED BY PARTICIPANTS. I BELIEVE THE CORE OF OUR CONFLICTS COME FROM THE UNFILLED NEEDS. DAYAD, MIRROR WORK, PEER COUNSELING, AND PRIMAL SOUND WITH EACH OTHER CAN HELP TO ALLEVIATE OUR INNER CONFLICTS. WE CAN ALSO USE THE ABOVE PRACTICES TO ALLEVIATE OUR FEARS THAT GET IN THE WAY OF OUR HEART FELT EXPRESSION OF OUR NEEDS. WE LEARN TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR OWN ISSUES, WITHHOLDS, AND EFFECTIVELY, EFFECTIVELY, ADDRESS THEM.

WE CAN LEARN TO EXPRESS EMOTIONALLY OUR FEELINGS AND EXPRESS OUR THOUGHTS IN A LOVING AND COMPASSIONATE WAY. WE CAN LEARN TO ACCESS, CONNECT WITH, AND RELEASE OUR INTENSITY OF FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF OUR FEARS AS IT REFLECTS OUR UNFULFILLED NEEDS!



BEST
JOEL V.

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NEEDS FEARS CONTROL COMPLIANCE

WOMEN NEED TO REPRODUCE, A NEST, SECURITY IN THE NEST, SO-CALLED BEADS (JEWELRY) BANGLES (FLOWERS), AND A MINIMUM 20 MINUTES OF ATTENTION FROM A MAN EACH DAY!  MEN NEED SEX AND A ROOF OVER THEIR HEADS. TOO OFTEN, WE ARE AFRAID TO EXPRESS OUR NEEDS BECAUSE WE MAY NOT GET THEM FILLED! WOMEN MAY BE AFRAID OF MEN'S ANGER AND MEN BE AFRAID OF REJECTION. WE HINT AT OUR NEEDS, MINIPULATE OTHERS TO GET OUR NEEDS MET, OR OUT RIGHT TAKE CHARGE AND CONTROL! i THINK MANY OF MALE/FEMALE CONFLICTS RESULT JUST FROM THE NON-EXPRESSION OF OUR NEEDS TO EACH OTHER. WE HAVE NOT BEEN EDUCATED TO EMOTIONAL EXPRESS OUR BASIC, NATURAL NEEDS IN A THOUGHTFUL AND FEELINGS WAY! THE RESULT IS CONFLICT AND SOMETIMES A LOT OF CONFLICT, HURT, AND TRAUMA BOTH PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL. WELL, IT'S GOT TO STOP NOW!

WE SPEAK ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIPS IN CO-DEPENDENCY MEETINGS AND OUR MALE/FEMALE RELATIONSHIPS ARE REVEALED BY PARTICIPANTS. I BELIEVE THE CORE OF OUR CONFLICTS COME FROM THE UNFILLED NEEDS. DAYAD, MIRROR WORK, AND PEER COUNSELING WITH EACH OTHER CAN HELP TO ALIEVATE THE CONFLICT. WE CAN LEARN TO EXPRESS EMOTIONALLY OUR FEELINGS AND EXPRESS OUR THOUGHTS IN A LOVING AND COMPASSIONATE WAY. WE CAN LEARN TO ACCESS, CONNECT WITH, AND RELEASE OUR INTENSITY OF FEARS AS IT REFLECTS OUR UNFULFILLED NEEDS!

BEST
JOEL V.

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Saturday | April 05, 2008

CAN HUMNKIND EVER BE RESTORED TO SANITY?

HUMANKIND CAN RESTORE ITSELF TO SANITY IF AND WHEN HUMANKIND COMMITS ITSELF TO PROCESS EFFECTIVELY ITS IRRATIONAL THINKING THROUGH RELEASING EMOTIONAL DISSONANCE. IT'S ONLY THEN THAT HUMANKIND CAN "GET CLEAR" ABOUT IT'S GOALS.

BLESSINGS
JOEL V.

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LETTING GO OF FRUSTRATIONS

PROCESS, PROCESS, PROCESS!  OUR NEEDS CAN NOT ALWAYS BE FILLED. FRUSTRATION IS CREATED WITHIN. THE SOLUTION IS TO PROCESS EFFECTIVELY AND THOROUGHLY OUR FRUSTRATIONS. WE PROCESS, PROCESS, PROCESS OUR FRUSTRATIONS THROUGH THOSE METHODS THAT RESONATE WITH OURSELVES.

MEDITATION, ANIMATED LAUGHTER, PRIMAL SOUND, ETC...  WE DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO MOVE THROUGH, PROCESS OUR FRUSTRATIONS. THEN, WE ARE READY TO MOVE ON!

BLESSINGS
JOEL V.
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Friday | April 04, 2008

STAYING CONNECTED TO SELF!

WHEN A PSYCHOLOGICAL PATTERN IS TRIGGERED; COMPULSIVE THOUGHTS CLOUD OUR MINDS;  AND WE BEGIN TO LOSE CONNECTION WITH OURSELVES; IT'S TIME TO "THINK"; "TAKE CHARGE OF OUR WORLDS"! IT'S ONCE AGAIN IN THE VERY NEXT INSTANT TO THINK AGAIN, AGAIN, AGAIN; IT'S TIME TO TAKE CHARGE OF THE WORLD!  WE MUST HAVE A METHOD TO RELEASE THE PAIN (FEELING) ENERGY WHEN WE THINK THAT THOUGHT. THE USE OF THE "YAWN" IS A VALUABLE EMOTIONAL GO TO TOOL THAT WE CAN UTILIZE.  TRY IT! IT DOES WORK! 

WE MUST STAY ALERT AND AWARE OF HOW WE ARE TRIGGERED AND WE CAN INSTANTANEOUS LEARN TO THINK TO TAKE CHARGE IN THAT INSTANT! IT IS A METHOD WHERE WE CAN STAY CONNECTED TO OURSELVES AND INSTANTANEOUSLY RELEASE OUR FEELINGS OF FEAR, ANGER, AND SAD!

BLESSINGS
JOEL V. 

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Thursday | April 03, 2008

ARE YOU DRIVEN BY YOUR FEARS?

"Willingness" is the key to move through your fears!  When you have the willingness to process your feelings reflective of the range of emotion, fear through terror then you will be motivated to acquire the necessary methods that resonate with you to achieve the goal of emotional release. You will be re-invigorated and liberated from your feelings of fear!

Best
Joel V.
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Friday | March 07, 2008

PICKY? - FEAR - JUDGEMENTS - CONTROL - CULTURAL CLASS RIGIDITIES

THEIR ARE CULTURAL AND CLASS RIGIDITIES THAT MANIFEST THEMSELVES IN RELATIONSHIPS. WHEN WE GET CLOSE AND INTIMATE WITH AN OTHER WHO COMES FROM A SIMILAR CLASS OR ANOTHER CLASS (OWNING CLASS, WORKING CLASS) JUDGEMENTS, AND CONTROL PATTERNS CAN SHOW THEIR HORNS. WHEN BOTH INDIVIDUALS ARE WILLING TO WORK THROUGH THEIR FEARS, AND CO-DEPENDENCIES LIBERATION RESULTS.

IN RELATIONSHIP, WE CAN USE METHODS LIKE DYAD, MIRROR WORK, AND PEER COUNSELING. THE NEXT ANIMATED LAUGHTER CLASS WILL BE HELD IN MAY AT A CHURCH.

BEST
JOEL V.
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Thursday | February 07, 2008

Getting Clear About Your Higher Power!

GETTING CLEAR ABOUT YOUR HIGHER POWER?
WHEN YOU'VE REACHED A CONSCIOUS STATE TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR BEHAVIORS, IT BECOMES EASIER TO BRING EFFECTIVE METHODS TO ADDRESS YOUR DISTRESSES. IF YOU HAVE A DISTRESS LIKE HELPLESSNESS AND HAVE INTENSITY OF FEELINGS REFLECTIVE OF THE EMOTIONS ANGER, FEAR, SAD THAT REFLECT THE ISSUE (HELPLESSNESS); THEN YOU CAN USE THE METHODS THAT RESONATE WITH YOU AND ADDRESS THE UNDERLYING FEELINGS THAT REFLECTIVE THOSE EMOTIONS THAT CAUSE YOU TO FEEL THE HELPLESSNESS.

WHEN YOU USE THOSE EFFECTIVE METHODS THAT RESONATE WITH YOU TO ADDRESS YOUR DISTRESSES; IT THEN BECOMES EASIER TO CONNECT WITH THE UNDERLYING FEELINGS, RELEASE THEM AND CONNECT WITH YOUR HIGHER POWER. WE LEARN TO "LET GO AND LET GOD IN! AS WE RELEASE OUR ANGER, FEAR, SAD EMOTIONS REFLECTIVE OF OUR FEELINGS OUR GODLY POWER RUSHES IN BRINGING FAITH, SELF-ESTEEM, COURAGE, STRENGTH AND ABOVE ALL WELL BEING. WE FEEL LIGHTER, MORE JOYFUL, PERHAPS MORE LOVING TO OURSELVES AND OTHERS.

BLESSINGS
JOEL V.
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Thursday | October 18, 2007

LEARN TO BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF!

LEARN TO BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF!
Laughing    THE PATTERN OF BEING HARD ON AND WITHIN ONE'S SELF CAN BE CONTRADICTED BY THINKING THAT WE GET TO BE GENTLE WITH OURSELVES REGARDLESS OF SITUATION OR CIRCUMSTANCES. ONCE AGAIN, WE STAY ALERT TO OUR THOUGHTS AND HOW SITUATIONS AND CIRCUMSTANCES CAN PERPETUATE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS WHICH TRANSLATE INTO OUR SELF INVALIDATION AND BEING HARD WITHIN AND ON OURSELVES.

 Laughing    WE CAN CONNECT WITH THE TENSION WITHIN USING PRIMAL SOUND AND RELEASE BY USING THE MANIFESTATIONS OF EMOTIONAL RELEASE. A SILENT MEDITATION WITH PROFOUND EMOTIONAL RELEASE OF YAWNS AND A SILENT MEDITATION WITHOUT YAWNS IS ALSO GREAT!

Laughing    WE CERTAINLY CAN LOWER OUR BLOOD PRESSURE BY USING THE CIRCULAR HEALING CONNECTED BREATH!

Laughing    I'LL BE DOING TWO CLASSES AT THE SIERRA CLUBS HOLISTIC GATHERING IN THE CUYAMACA MOUNTAINS AT THEIR FOSTER LODGE BEGINNING OCTOBER 26TH. PLEASE CHECK THEIR CALENDAR, SIERRA CLUB SAN DIEGO FOR DETAILS. I'LL BE DOING A ANIMATED LAUGHTER CLASS (YOUTUBE.COM, WRITE IN "ANIMATED LAUGHTER WITH FEELINGS" CLICK SEARCH) AND A TAI CHI CHUAN CLASS. THERE WILL ALSO BE A HALLOWEEN PARTY ON SATURDAY NIGHT WITH A GREAT BAND! HOPE TO SEE ALL OF YOU THERE!

HUGS
JOEL V.
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